There is an interesting flaw in the way men tend to relate to attractive women, myself included. I think women are used to getting attention and having men more than willing to sleep with them, love them, etc. before any real criteria on the man’s part is applied. Men too easily assume because there is attraction that a woman has something we want or is worth our time whereas I think women tend to learn very early on the value of selectivity. In my own life these observations point to where I want to cultivate deeper sexual honor. Women already have to go through Lezlie before becoming intimate with me, a trial in it’s own right, but it’s not enough. Who are you? What kind of energy do you have? What are you about?
I could swear I read somewhere about a study done where monkeys were presented with two switches. For some time only the first switch worked and it delivered the monkey its food. The monkey learned to flip this switch and be fed. At some point the second switch was activated. This switch was hooked to an electrode connected to a part of the monkey’s brain that stimulated an instant orgasm. The monkeys would push this orgasm button until they passed out from exhaustion only to wake up again and do it over again. This to the point of starvation and near death, the food button completely forgotten. Does anyone remember this study or am I making this shit up?
In any case, we aren’t monkeys, we have the capability of a more refined consciousness. And deeper still, DNA is merely an expression of the spiritual, matter a thought in the mind of God. I find the depth of sexual desire, or any desire for that matter, to be intimately related to the intensity of our longing for reconnection with Truth. It’s not a failure that men have to consciously cultivate selectivity. Man’s lack of selectivity had an evolutionary purpose. It’s a big part of how we survived! But something new is evolving. And perhaps ironically I think it’s the highly selective men nowadays, the men that can find a girl incredibly sexy and simultaneously brush her off because she is lame that get the most women and the sexiest women.
